* keep your thoughts to yourself *

i am a person who value opinions and i admit that opinions help us grow and in my case, yes..some of the opinions i obtained from people do help me grow and i gladly appreciate such opinions..you know, opinions that help you grow..

but but but but..there are people who loves launching their unwanted opinions and that kind of opinions will not help one grow likewise in my case.i am an easily influence person and sometimes i listened too much to the voices outside that i forgotten all about my own voice inside.

this make me sad because i will get all personal afterwards and realised that they are deciding for me base on their personal experience.then i realised it is really a personal issue after all.

helping is good and opinions are good as well but sometimes, its good to keep some to oneself and not act like a smarty pants just because one's life works another way around.i guessed there is a reason why God wired different people differently.

i speak for myself as well.not to always give an opinion because not everyone wants an opinion from me and vice versa.