* in a relationship *

status updated..

from single =====> in a relationship..

i stared in awe at the computer screen..

my friend..my good old friend is finally in a relationship..

now, i know to many, being in a relationship at the age of 25 is nothing..but to this friend of mine, he has been found courting this girl for the longest time ever..and now, they are together..

its amazing how love can withstand all waves, storms and wind..

relationship..

what exactly does one mean when they are in a relationship?

im in a relationship myself and to me, there is no right or wrong in defining what is a relationship..

to me, it simply is a level to go through in order to prepare for "the forever" life with your partner..it is a transition from the word "courting couple" to "gfs and bfs" to "spouse" or "husband and wife"..

thats what i think..

and i learn to value my relationship more after the 10 months to a year distance relationship i had with kvlye..wasnt easy but to think of it again, its not that tough either..

so, i do admire those people who went through distance relationship and came out of it well together, tie knots and live ever after..not happily as i do not believe in fairy tales ending..but these people stayed on together..fought together and earn what they fought for together..

that's the beauty of it all..

to those who are reading this and is going through distance relationship or might go through it later, just believe and trust..and remember, its wasnt all easy but it wasnt all tough either..it depends how complicated you want it to be..sure there will be tears and laughters along the way but who said love was ever easy? you have got to find some value worth fighthing for..tears and laughters are included in the package when you're in a relationship..

at the end of the day, when you tell yourself and your partner that everything is going to be alright, indeed, everything will be alright..